It's official. Elliot has now completed his culturally-mandated swimming lessons and graduated with high honors. Today, he received his covted Zwemdiploma A (Swimming Diploma, Level A), and we were there to witness the occasion.
For all the cynicism that I've expressed previously (primarily related to the ways that social pressure is applied to make parents pay large amounts of money for a skill set that most American children learn gradually, under much less stringent conditions, and with a much lower price tag), I have to admit that it was a pretty cool experience to witness this classic Dutch rite of passage. I felt very proud to see that my son was able to fight through his fears -- marked by weekly terrified, tear-wrenching episodes -- for several months in a row in order to achieve this milestone.
The official requirements for this level of certification are as follows:
WHILE WEARING STREET CLOTHES:
It's hard-core stuff, isn't it? The Dutch do not mess around, when it comes to their swimming! They say it's all the water lying around, in the canals and ponds and lakes -- it requires a serious and sober assessment of a child's ability to fend for himself in the water.
Fortunately, Elliot's lessons prepared him well, and he was able to perform all the required tasks with very little difficulty (you can see Elliot in the long-distance photographs by virtue of his orange swimming trunks and black swimming shirt).
What we were not completely prepared for was the festive atmosphere of the swimming pool.
One of the life-guards/instructors wore a head-mounted microphone and entertained the crowd very much like a game-show host. Most of the kids going for their diplomas had brought not just moms, dads, brothers, and sisters -- but also grandparents and aunts and uncles and neighbors. There was probably a good 60 or 70 people on hand to witness the occasion! Wild applause and shouting was encouraged (even expected). And even while the kids were doing their swimming, there was music playing over the loudspeakers and everyone clapped along in rhythm to the songs. Everyone was taking pictures and video footage. And, from what I heard from other parents in the locker rooms afterwards, many of the "graduates" were to be congratulated with gifts when they got home.
Overall, the atmosphere was much more like a children's birthday party than a swimming examination. In spite of the seriousness of the swimming requirements, there were no clipboards or checklists. None of the children who were there failed (though I'm guessing that some of the children from Elliot's class were told that they were not yet ready to take the exam). It really felt more like a celebratory exhibition than a test or a ceremony.
A good time was had by all.
It was especially nice that we got to have some "extended family" -- in the form of our church friends, Naomi, Linda, and Claire -- come to witness the occasion with us. Elliot was all smiles, posing with his diploma and with everyone who was there at the poolside ceremony.
Afterwards, we went out for ice cream to celebrate. We didn't really get Elliot any other gifts to mark the occasion (though he didn't seem to mind or expect them). I think he was just glad to be done with it all -- and to have had the opportunity to shine in the spotlight for an afternoon. As we were leaving the swimming facilities, the teachers were trying to warn us of the necessity of the children going on to get their B (and eventually their C) diplomas as well. But we told Elliot that he's allowed to decide if and when he would like to continue his swimming lessons, in the future.
For now, he's just basking in the glory of his A-diploma.
[In case you're interested, there are a few additional photos of the afternoon available for viewing in the Family Pictures section of this website.]